Strength is about Being Seen with Koby Falks

The Purple Pawedcast · 2025-05-09

In this episode, we hear Koby Falks's story of finding authenticity and strength by challenging toxic masculine stereotypes. Koby is an adult content creator, entrepreneur and advocate for authenticity in the adult content industry. Koby and I muse over topics as diverse as when masculinity turns toxic, how negating sex negates ourselves, and what it means to be a good bottom.

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Koby Falks Linktree: https://linktr.ee/KobyFalks

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(00:00) - Opening credits(00:37) - Show opening(01:32) - Introducing Koby Falks(02:43) - The pandemic brings new opportunities(07:07) - Instead of external, look at the internal(12:13) - Dismissing what we don't understand(18:13) - Masculinity isn't bottling up, it's showing up(21:54) - Avoiding the masculine to feel more comfortable(26:47) - Rigidity breeds toxicity(32:35) - Being seen helps others be seen(36:05) - Bisexual stigmatized in the Queer community(41:21) - Challenging our own processes(43:58) - Dominant is not always masculine(45:54) - Controlling sex means controlling identity(50:19) - Power in the feminine(56:25) - Turns out we know about sex(58:21) - How to find Koby Falks on the internet(59:58) - Show closing(01:00:55) - Closing credits ★ Support this podcast ★

The Purple Pawedcast

Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this pod is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.

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